The word love in itself has got lot of variant meanings to different people. Mostly people remember their loved ones with the moments they spent with them , the emails or text messages they send to each other, with the gifts they exchange with each other , the poems written or the songs sung in appreciation of beauty of their loved ones.
But even with all these intelligence of communication bestowed to Man from Allah. Human beings still cannot handle love when the communication level is low , a person's words are never understood the way it was intended and the response for his words are never understood by the speaker.
So basically it makes no sense to believe that the bond of love depends on words what you speak.
In this blog i am going to mention about the unspoken love i experienced in my life , from a creature which could not speak. In case, if you have started to guess about me having a dumb girlfriend then NO , here I am talking about the she cat which i owned some 3 yrs back from now , who was named by me as BAKERY . Yes, you read that right it was called BAKERY(as in a bakery for bread ).
Bakery stayed with us for almost 3 - 4 years, I still remember the first time I saw her ,
Ours was a house with a terrace which was connected to other houses and building in the surrounding , In my home there was already a cat, a white one which had taken kindof refuge in our home and since I was kindof attached to cats right from my school days , I always used to pour some milk in the saucer for any cat which would come by to say hello(read as 'meow') to my home, and it was this habit of mine which attracted Bakery towards our home . On that wonderful evening Bakery came down from terrace walking down slowly with its soft paws with some kind of fear of being caught by humans , seeing that it was too hesitant to come down to have the milk I kept the saucer some 3 steps above the ground on the staircase, so It drank the milk and just went into oblivion and we too said her goodbye thinking she too was just a hellosayer kindof friend.
And so the next day too it came through the sameway and had milk , and this went on for some days , and Bakery from the staircase now got enough confidence to get into the house , As i said we already had a white cat which use to hang around our house so it was kindof fight between Bakery and the white cat. And few days later we realised the white cat stopped coming to our home fearing Bakery , and now Bakery became the undisputed pet of our home.Bakery made sure it created kindof borders to stop other cats from infiltrating its home (i mean our home) so when all this happened Bakery was still a very small cat but was very fierceful and also very playful and use to play all day.
To give a description about Bakery it was a feline with pure black color except for the white patches on paws ,the neck and a small white patch on its nose which used to appear like someone had applied a small amount of fare n lovely on her nose with their finger , It did not have a good fur neither was it like those persian cats with full of hairs and a fat tail , Bakery appeared very slim with its black hair appearing like they were oiled and combed well, a not so fat tail and its large whiskers were quite big than normally we see in other cats. For most of the people who had an illusion of a beautiful cat as a White or a Grey colored persian Bakery appeared to them as quite ugly and scary, Many guests at our home were even afraid to keep their feet on the floor.
Bakery was someone whom i never forgot to say Bye when i used to leave home for college , trying to pull her thin cheeks and whiskers also sometimes , Bakery always appeared to me like a small cute kid .
So when i used to return home from college Bakery used to appear from nowhere and start making noise at top of her voice like trying to complain or say 'where the hell were you the whole day?' and she used to be silent only when some food of hers was given to her.
Usually cats have a habit of moving around feet of humans and rubbing their body , Bakery was no different in this manner, It always used to try rubbing its body against my feet and when i used to walk around in home it always used to cross my way , It sometimes reminded me of a myth people here in India believe that 'if a cat crosses your way it is a bad luck for you' and I used to laugh at this belief of people I used to say them that 'My way is crossed atleast 50 times in a day that too by a black cat and nothing bad happened to me'.
to be continued... in part 2
But even with all these intelligence of communication bestowed to Man from Allah. Human beings still cannot handle love when the communication level is low , a person's words are never understood the way it was intended and the response for his words are never understood by the speaker.
So basically it makes no sense to believe that the bond of love depends on words what you speak.
In this blog i am going to mention about the unspoken love i experienced in my life , from a creature which could not speak. In case, if you have started to guess about me having a dumb girlfriend then NO , here I am talking about the she cat which i owned some 3 yrs back from now , who was named by me as BAKERY . Yes, you read that right it was called BAKERY(as in a bakery for bread ).
Bakery stayed with us for almost 3 - 4 years, I still remember the first time I saw her ,
Ours was a house with a terrace which was connected to other houses and building in the surrounding , In my home there was already a cat, a white one which had taken kindof refuge in our home and since I was kindof attached to cats right from my school days , I always used to pour some milk in the saucer for any cat which would come by to say hello(read as 'meow') to my home, and it was this habit of mine which attracted Bakery towards our home . On that wonderful evening Bakery came down from terrace walking down slowly with its soft paws with some kind of fear of being caught by humans , seeing that it was too hesitant to come down to have the milk I kept the saucer some 3 steps above the ground on the staircase, so It drank the milk and just went into oblivion and we too said her goodbye thinking she too was just a hellosayer kindof friend.
And so the next day too it came through the sameway and had milk , and this went on for some days , and Bakery from the staircase now got enough confidence to get into the house , As i said we already had a white cat which use to hang around our house so it was kindof fight between Bakery and the white cat. And few days later we realised the white cat stopped coming to our home fearing Bakery , and now Bakery became the undisputed pet of our home.Bakery made sure it created kindof borders to stop other cats from infiltrating its home (i mean our home) so when all this happened Bakery was still a very small cat but was very fierceful and also very playful and use to play all day.
To give a description about Bakery it was a feline with pure black color except for the white patches on paws ,the neck and a small white patch on its nose which used to appear like someone had applied a small amount of fare n lovely on her nose with their finger , It did not have a good fur neither was it like those persian cats with full of hairs and a fat tail , Bakery appeared very slim with its black hair appearing like they were oiled and combed well, a not so fat tail and its large whiskers were quite big than normally we see in other cats. For most of the people who had an illusion of a beautiful cat as a White or a Grey colored persian Bakery appeared to them as quite ugly and scary, Many guests at our home were even afraid to keep their feet on the floor.
Bakery was someone whom i never forgot to say Bye when i used to leave home for college , trying to pull her thin cheeks and whiskers also sometimes , Bakery always appeared to me like a small cute kid .
So when i used to return home from college Bakery used to appear from nowhere and start making noise at top of her voice like trying to complain or say 'where the hell were you the whole day?' and she used to be silent only when some food of hers was given to her.
Usually cats have a habit of moving around feet of humans and rubbing their body , Bakery was no different in this manner, It always used to try rubbing its body against my feet and when i used to walk around in home it always used to cross my way , It sometimes reminded me of a myth people here in India believe that 'if a cat crosses your way it is a bad luck for you' and I used to laugh at this belief of people I used to say them that 'My way is crossed atleast 50 times in a day that too by a black cat and nothing bad happened to me'.
to be continued... in part 2